Hitting the dining spots of Morden, I come in contact with a great many young ladies (teens) who serve and waitress in our local restaurants. Chit chatting with them over time, you can begin to build a tiny profile of their likes and dislikes, goals and ambitions. (Of course, they can do the same about me!) It is nothing but a delight to engage in this sort of 15 second banter with them. It reveals many fascinating facets of who they are, and in what they are involved with. But on ocasion, one is blown away by a comment or a reply they make,
Such was the case just the other day.
Driving around the streets of town on the Monday of the August long week-end, with little traffic around, I thought I saw one of these gals strolling on the street.
Upon seeing her the next day at her work, I questioned if it was she whom I saw walking north on 8th Street..
"Yes, it was", and she had gone to mail a letter.
"You were mailing a letter to me?" I asked spontaneously.
"No, I was sending a letter to my sponsor child."
"Your sponsor child?"
"Yes!"
"You sponsor a child?"
"Yes!"
And then she left, and I was in left in a mental haze!
This young, attractive, dynamatic, dramatic, goofy, joyful, fun loving,
and sweet, caring gal, just elevated her stature right before my very eyes.
There will be a new respect paid to her. Her obvious concern for the plight of others is heart warming.
She has a little brother, who admires her very much, and he comes in a large 2XL size, add me to that admiration list.
Who’s painting all young people with the same brush, saying that nothing will ever become of them down the road.
Great teens and kids are still around us folks! You just have to engage them and express an interest in their hopes and desires, and let the dialogue flow. As adults, we can sometimes be pretty intimidating.
I have no idea what formula applies to having great kids. It may be genes, it may be parenting, it may be schooling, it may be the physical and mental environment they live in, it may be unconditional love - who really knows?
All I can say is, when you come across it, savour it, while you can.